Guilt-invocation has an undeservedly bad reputation. Of course, a relentless barrage of denigration is inappropriate, but in small doses, invoking guilt can yield that valuable intrinsic sense of right and wrong. Contrast that with the parent who attempts to gain compliance with rewards and punishments. When a child with insufficient intrinsic motivation is away—at school, with friends, at college—s/he is more likely to make poor choices. … [Read more...] about Three Principles of Good Parenting
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Overcoming anxiety is not about extinguishing it as much as managing it and even making it work for you. Tolerating humiliation is paradoxically strengthening. Franciscan Richard Rohr writes, "I have prayed for years for one good humiliation a day, and then, I must watch my reaction to it. I have no other way of spotting both my denied shadow self and my idealized persona." … [Read more...] about Why Do I Fear Success?
Capricorn: 22 December - 19 January During this time you will feel quite lonely. Your relationship with your family members has deteriorated over the last few years. It is possible that they do not agree with any of your decisions. In such a situation, you are advised to avoid pressuring them or doing any kind of irresponsible actions. This can increase the communication gap and handling and it will be better if you wait for the right time. During this time you have to check your speech and behaviour. If you talk without thinking, you may put yourself and others in trouble. You better keep this in mind. Talking about the work, this time is good for completing your pending tasks, but if you try to deal with the work in the office itself, it will be better. If you also work at home, then this will affect your personal life, especially if your spouse does not like it. If you are single then you can get a love proposal during this time. However, at this time your entire focus is on your … [Read more...] about Weekly Horoscope: 23 Feb To 29 Feb