So I’m here from the front lines to report: I’m not cured. I still fall apart. And I can quote Leonard Cohen all I want and talk about how the crack is where the light comes in but the reality is it sucks when I’m going through it. Even though, of course, just like all those people promised, I always come out on the other side having learned something invaluable. It just can take a long goddamn time—unlike aging, which seems to happen in a millisecond. … [Read more...] about But I Thought the Rules Didn’t Apply to Me?