These steps are meant as a summary of this article more than bona fide advice. Pathways to love are unique to each couple. The many self-help articles might contain a more specific piece of advice that might work for you. And once you and another become a happy couple, you become even more similar to each other and more biased toward each other in positive ways. Positive biases help you to downplay each other’s faults and underestimate the attractiveness of potential alternative partners. In fact, we typically expect such biases from our partners (Boyes & Fletcher, 2007). … [Read more...] about What Makes Someone Physically Attracted to You?