What's the best way to ask out the cute girl in my apartment building? Answer: Tread very, very lightly. Even the smallest invasion of privacy could spook her, so your interactions need to be genuinely accidental. Make small gains in familiarity each time you run into her, progressing from introductions to banter about the landlord. If her tight-lipped nods morph into conversation, that's your cue to ask her out. "Out" is the key word -- the building is off-limits. This keeps the date fresh and allows her (or you) to escape if it's a bust. … [Read more...] about What’s the best way to ask out the cute girl in my apartment building?
Best ways to ask a girl out
What's the best way to ask out a complete stranger? Answer: I advise single guys to keep a cool event in the back of their mind at all times. Maybe it's the Friday night open mike at a great bar, an after-work rock-climbing clinic at the gym, or a Sunday kickball game in the park. When you see a cute girl, chat her up for a few minutes and say, "Hey, my friends and I are trying to get more people to go to this thing. You should check it out." If she's single and looking to meet someone, she'll show up with her friends and come looking for you. … [Read more...] about What’s the best way to ask out a complete stranger?
Like a hole-in-one or bumping into Bill Murray, threesomes do happen. In fact, a recent poll found 20 percent of people report having had the experience.But unless you’re a nihilist porn star, you’re not just going to randomly wander into a ménage a trois. (The same goes for these 5 Things That Only Happen in Porn.)For mathematical reasons—getting to three is easier when you start with two—a lot of threesomes involve couples who have decided to branch out.But if you’re hoping to invite another woman into the bedroom with you and your partner, that’s going to require thoughtful timing, a considered approach, and close observation of your girl’s sexual demeanor, says Emily Morse, a doctor of human sexuality and host of the podcast "Sex with Emily."Here's the right way to make a threesome happen—or at least test the waters—without wrecking your relationship. 1. Break down your bond. Be honest: How are you and your partner … [Read more...] about The Right Way to Make a Threesome Happen
We all think the same thing when we see a beautiful girl in a bikini at the beach: “What can I do to see those last four square inches of covered skin?” The answer is as clear as the Caribbean with this treasure map from body language expert Marc Salem. Set Your StageDon't strut up and down the beach like a peacock. Instead, build an oasis on the sand and let the women flock to you. Stake out your spot on high ground so you’re visible to passers by and appear in control of the area. Lay down a solid color blanket—women subconsciously associate bold stripes and patterned prints with children. Once you’ve established your perimeter with the blanket, men will respect the borders of your territory. That means you won’t have to worry about any muscle-bound meatheads trying to horn in on your game.Meet Her NeedsEveryone at the beach needs three things: sunscreen, water, and shade. Bring some different SPFs of sunscreen, a cooler full of water bottles, and … [Read more...] about 6 Ways to Start a Summer Fling
We love us some Downton Abbey, but ladies waiting on gentlemen callers? Eh, not so much. If you see a guy you want to meet, or want to date a guy you already know, there's nothing to keep you from initiating action—except, maybe, knowing how to ask him out.For starters, you don't want to play it too cool or coy, but you also don't want to go all man-eater on him any more than you'd want to be prey to some slick pickup artist. And even though it's been decades since we were green-lighted to make the first move (thanks, Sadie Hawkins!), many of us still feel uncomfortable putting that anointment into action: Only 11 percent of women say they've actually asked a guy out in the past year, according to a Match.com survey of more than 5,000 people.Then there's the fact that some men are feeling marginalized these days because they've been hit a little harder than women have during the economic downturn-and the last thing you want to do is brazenly stomp all over his last bastion of … [Read more...] about How To Ask a Guy Out